About BKSC
Our story, mission, values, and the people who make our community thrive
Our Story
How BKSC came to be
Founded by a Submissive, for Submissives
The Brevard Kinkster's sub Club was founded in 2025 by serella, a submissive living in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) dynamic with STōN. Through years of personal experience navigating the complexities of submission, serella recognized a critical gap in the Brevard County kink community: there was no dedicated space where submissives could come together to learn, grow, and support one another.
While the broader Brevard Kinkster's community offered valuable resources and connections, submissives often found themselves navigating their unique challenges without targeted guidance or peer support. Questions about boundaries, protocols, emotional processing, and the nuances of power exchange dynamics needed a focused forum where submissives could speak freely and learn from those who truly understood their experiences.
Drawing inspiration from established organizations like The Eulenspiegel Society (TES) in New York City—the oldest BDSM education group in the United States—serella envisioned a community that would combine rigorous education with authentic peer mentorship, all grounded in the highest standards of consent, safety, and ethical practice.
Blessed by Community Elders
Before launching BKSC, serella sought the blessing and guidance of Sir Flogger, a respected elder within the Brevard Kinkster's community. Sir Flogger's endorsement provided not only legitimacy but also a connection to the wisdom and traditions that have sustained the local kink community for years.
This blessing represents BKSC's commitment to honoring the knowledge of those who came before us while creating something new and needed. We stand on the shoulders of community builders who have worked tirelessly to create safe, ethical spaces for kink exploration and education.
With Sir Flogger's support and the encouragement of the broader Brevard Kinkster's community, BKSC held its first meeting in early 2025, bringing together submissives from across the county who were eager for connection, education, and mutual support.
Mission & Vision
Our Mission
The Brevard Kinkster's sub Club exists to provide a safe, structured, and supportive space where submissives—new and experienced—can explore their identities, develop their skills, and grow within the practice of consensual power exchange.
Through mentorship, education, and intentional community-building, we empower submissives to honor their authentic selves, cultivate emotional resilience, and build connections rooted in trust, respect, and mutual care.
We are committed to upholding the highest standards of consent, communication, and ethical conduct, guided by the wisdom of our elders and the lived experiences of those who walk this path daily.
Our Vision
We envision a thriving community where submission is recognized as a sacred practice of empowerment, vulnerability is met with respect, and every member is supported in their journey toward self-actualization within consensual kink dynamics.
We see a future where submissives in Brevard County have access to comprehensive education, meaningful mentorship, and a network of peers who understand their experiences and celebrate their growth.
We aspire to be a model for other communities, demonstrating that ethical, inclusive, and educational kink organizations can flourish when built on principles of consent, integrity, and mutual care.
Our Core Values
The principles that guide everything we do
Consent
Enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing consent is non-negotiable in all interactions. We believe consent is not just a one-time agreement but a continuous conversation that honors autonomy and agency.
Respect
Every individual's journey, identity, and boundaries are honored without exception. We celebrate diversity in submission styles, relationship structures, and personal expressions of power exchange.
Integrity
We practice what we teach and hold ourselves accountable to our stated values. Leadership models ethical behavior, and we address violations swiftly and transparently.
Growth
We support continuous personal development through education, reflection, and mentorship. We believe that learning is a lifelong journey, and we provide resources for every stage.
Community
We recognize that individual empowerment thrives within supportive, connected networks. We build relationships based on trust, mutual care, and shared commitment to ethical practice.
Courage
We honor the bravery it takes to explore vulnerability, surrender, and authentic self-expression. Submission is not weakness—it is a deliberate, powerful choice.
Guiding Principles
- Earned Trust: Trust is built through consistency, transparency, and demonstrated respect over time.
- No Tolerance for Abuse: Manipulation, coercion, boundary violations, and abuse are grounds for immediate removal.
- Confidentiality: What is shared in BKSC spaces stays within BKSC unless permission is explicitly given.
- Inclusivity: We welcome submissives of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, experience levels, races, and abilities.
- Humility in Leadership: Leadership is a responsibility, not a status symbol; leaders serve the community, not themselves.
- Celebration of Diversity: There is no "one true way" to be submissive; we honor the full spectrum of submission styles and dynamics.
Leadership & Organization
The people who guide and support our community
Founder & Primary Facilitator: serella
serella is the visionary founder of BKSC and serves as the primary facilitator and organizer. Living in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) dynamic with STōN, serella brings years of lived experience in submission, power exchange, and ethical kink practice.
As founder, serella oversees curriculum development, community culture, and serves as the final arbiter in disputes (in consultation with Sir Flogger when necessary). serella's leadership is grounded in humility, service, and a deep commitment to creating a space where all submissives can thrive.
Co-Facilitators
2-3 elected members who assist with meeting facilitation, event planning, and serve as points of contact for new members. Co-facilitators are elected annually by the membership.
Safety Officer
Monitors adherence to the Code of Conduct, receives and investigates reports of violations, and coordinates with leadership on disciplinary actions.
Communications Coordinator
Manages the FetLife group, email list, and other communication channels. Publishes newsletters and meeting summaries.
Mentorship Coordinator
Oversees mentor/mentee matching and training, collects feedback, and adjusts the mentorship program as needed.
Interested in Leadership?
Leadership positions (other than Founder) are elected annually by full members in good standing. Terms begin in January and run for one calendar year. Leaders may serve consecutive terms if re-elected.
To be eligible for leadership, members must have been active in BKSC for at least 6 months and demonstrate consistent adherence to our Code of Conduct and values.
What We Are & What We Are Not
What We Are
- A safe space for learning and connection
- A mentorship network for submissives
- An educational resource hub
- A community of peers committed to ethical kink practice
- A judgment-free zone for exploration and growth
- A place where submission is celebrated as empowerment
What We Are Not
- A dating service or partner-matching platform
- A play party or event hosting organization
- A substitute for therapy or mental health care
- A space for non-consensual or abusive behavior
- A commercial enterprise (we are volunteer-run and non-profit)
- A place where predatory behavior is tolerated
Community Affiliations
BKSC is proudly affiliated with the Brevard Kinkster's community on FetLife, the largest social network for the kink, BDSM, and fetish community. We are part of a broader ecosystem of education, support, and connection in Brevard County, Florida.
We also draw inspiration and best practices from established organizations including:
- The Eulenspiegel Society (TES) - New York City's oldest BDSM education organization (founded 1971)
- National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) - Advocacy and legal resources for the kink community
- Various local and regional kink education groups across the United States
Join Our Community
Become part of a community that celebrates submission as a sacred practice of empowerment and authentic self-expression.